15 Life-Changing Bible Verses About Friends

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Friendship is one of the most precious gifts that we have been given. Yet, it is sometimes fraught with tensions and pitfalls. Thankfully, God has not left us to navigate this important part of life alone. He has given us lots of advice and clues to look out for. Let’s explore some Bible verses about friends to see what God has to say about this relationship.

What Does the Bible Say About Friendship?

The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines friendship in the following ways:

  1. The state of being friends, that is, one being attached to another by affection or esteem
  2. The quality or state of being friendly

In other words, friendship involves being a friend to someone. We do that when we have and exhibit respect or affection for someone else.

Friendship is all about relationships, about esteeming someone above yourself. God created us as social beings. We are supposed to be in community with God and each other. It shouldn’t surprise you then to learn that the Bible has a lot to say about friendship.

Let’s look at just a few Bible verses about friends to see what we can learn.

  • Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. John 15:13 ESV

Jesus is a friend to all. I know we say this a lot on this site but it bears repeating: Jesus died for our sins. He died for us long before we acknowledged Him as Lord and Savior. He died for everyone…even those who will never acknowledge Him. If you’ve never thought about it before, take some time right now to think about what it means that Jesus is your friend.

  • Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” 1 Corinthians 15:33 ESV

The word translated as “corrupt” is the Greek word phtheírō, (pronounced fthi’-ro). Phtheírō could also mean to shrivel or wither

When used figuratively, phtheírō means to ruin by moral influences

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If we spend time around people with loose morals and bad habits it will begin to affect us. I know a lot of Christians think that because we have a responsibility to evangelize the world we should be friends with sinners. We do this thinking that we’ll be able to influence them for the kingdom.

Unfortunately, the Christian often starts to let go of their moral values and eventually drift away from God. While we should be friendly to those who don’t know God, we need to exercise wisdom in how close we allow them to get to us.

  • Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 ESV

Friends encourage each other and build each other up. Have you ever had one of those “friends” who only had negative things to say about you? They picked at your confidence until you felt unworthy. If you haven’t already figured it out, that person is not your friend. A true friend encourages you to do good life-giving things.

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up! Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 ESV

A godly friendship is a supportive one. According to this Bible verse about friends, a friend is willing to support you when you need it. A person is stronger when they have friends who can help them.

Proverbs About Friendship

I love proverbs. They typically pack a whole lot of truth into a short, memorable sentence. The book of Proverbs has a lot to say about friendship. Some of the lessons we will learn from these Proverbs about friendship are confirmed in other books of the Bible.

  • Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another. Proverbs 27:17 ESV

Do your friendships make you better? They should. Our friends should help us hone our skills, they shouldn’t encourage us to continue things that destroy us.

  • Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm. Proverbs 13:20 ESV

This proverb about friendship is similar to the previous one. The people we surround ourselves with will have an impact on us. We should therefore surround ourselves with people who know and serve God and who act wisely.

  • A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 18:24 ESV

This proverb is sometimes rendered as: A man who has friends must himself be friendly,
But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. (NKJV)

The lesson seems to be slightly contradictory based on the translation. On one hand, if you want to have friends you must act friendly towards others. At the same time, too many “friends” can become a problem.

Bible verses about friends

I actually believe that the message of this proverb is true regardless of the translation. You don’t attract a lot of friends by being surly and disagreeable. But having too many “friends” especially those who are not genuine or godly can be to our detriment.

  • Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare. Proverbs 22:24-25 ESV

Have you ever noticed how easy it is to fall into bad habits, especially when you are surrounded by people who constantly do it? The Bible says anger is contagious. If we surround ourselves with easily angered people, we will become people who are easily angered too.

  • The righteous should choose his friends carefully, For the way of the wicked leads them astray. Proverbs 12:26 NKJV

As Christians, we should choose our friends wisely because we understand the impact the people we spend time with can have on us.

  • The poor man is hated even by his own neighbor, But the rich has many friends. Proverbs 14:20 NKJV
  • Wealth makes many friends, But the poor is separated from his friend. Proverbs 19:4 NKJV
  • Many entreat the favor of the nobility, And every man is a friend to one who gives gifts. Proverbs 19:6 NKJV

These three proverbs about friendship seem to be saying the same thing: wealth can attract a flock of fake friends. It, therefore, means that we need to learn how to differentiate between fake friends and people who genuinely care for us.

  • Faithful are the wounds of a friend, But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful. Proverbs 27:6 NKJV

Has a friend ever been told you something about yourself that was true but painful to hear? I bet you have. And maybe it took you a little time to accept the truth or to get over the sting of what your friend said. But here’s the thing: a true friend is going to tell you the truth with love.

She will speak truth because she wants you to grow in a particular area, she will not be saying things deliberately to hurt you.

On the other hand, some people flatter you, but they don’t mean you any good. This proverb about friendship is a reminder that it’s better to hear the truth from someone who loves you (even if it hurts) than to be told flattering, pleasing things by someone who doesn’t have your best interest in heart.

Our friendships matter to God. I hope you have been encouraged to spend some time to find even more great Bible verses about friends as you learn to honor this God-given relationship.

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